Women Who Rock
I saw Sleater-Kinney last night at Roseland. SK is a 3-piece, all-female band (2 guitarists and a drummer). I’ve only heard a few of their songs but wanted to see them since it would be my first time seeing an all-female rock group. I met up with my two bandmates who are big fans of them. The crowd was quite eclectic –the entire lesbian community of Manhattan was in attendance mixed in with a few professionals, lots of college kids, and a few hipsters. We sneaked our way to the front of the stage (which was a feat since Roseland is a big hall and there were tons of people) and were able to get an excellent view. The show was really dynamic. The guitarist Carrie and drummer Janet were amazing!
Sleater-Kinney: Carrie and Corin
Carrie with Janet in background...
Loved their energy! The best part of the show for me was when they came back for a second encore and played a cover of Danzig’s “Mother.” Kick-ass!!! I love that song! In short, despite my lack of knowledge about their songs, I had a good time. It was great to see an all-female band rock out on stage. Which brings me to the following point…
Why aren’t that many female rock bands out there? I don’t mean just female rock singers (e.g., Pat Benatar, Alanis, Sheryl Crow, Siouxie, etc.) My point is, throughout musical history, there has only been a handful of influential female/mostly-female bands out there. Sure, there are a lot of popular female-fronted bands (e.g., No Doubt; Garbage; Blondie, etc.), but there’s really no female supergroup that comes to mind.
Here’s a few popular groups that have been an integral part of rock history: The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, U2, R.E.M., The Beatles, Aerosmith…the list goes on and on and on. Here are the female groups that are only slightly comparable: The Go-Go’s and The Bangles. There’s really not a lot of female rockers out there that have made it big.
I’m not trying to plug that there should be more female bands vs. male bands. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I wish that more female musicians out there would become successful (i.e., mainstream) so that more bands would consist of not just male musicians.
Despite this little tirade of mine, I for one don’t really classify bands in terms of gender. If they happen to be female, that's fine. It just so happens that almost all of the bands I like happen to be all-male or mostly male.
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By the way, here's a picture of my newest tattoo:
Song of the Day:
- I joined a writing group that meets every 2 weeks. We take turns submitting a story and then offer constructive criticism to the writer. My first meeting is next Thursday.
- I'm watching my guitar teacher’s band play tonight. It should be interesting. Especially since the band’s name is Bullcock. Hehehe….
- Still have not see Mr. and Mrs. Smith nor Batman Begins. Still want to! I am dying to see a whole slew of movies that are out (and are soon to be out). However, for some movies, I do wait until they go on DVD because prices are just outrageous nowadays. We're talking $10 a pop. But I still make it a point to see movies with special effects on the big screen –the way they are ought to be enjoyed, like Star Wars!
- Went out to shoot some pool last Saturday. Boy do I suck. There was a time that I used to be really good. As in I would call an 8-ball bank shot and actually get it in. There was a time during college that I played almost everyday. Prior to last Saturday, the last time I played pool was probably around last year sometime during the fall. I am going to hone my pool playing skills once more!
- I’m looking to revamp my blog template. This is particularly difficult since I have no HTML/Tech skills whatsoever. I would like a banner on the top of my page with a photo collage on it (similar to Pinayhekmi’s new blog banner or Karla's) but can’t even fathom how to make one! Does anyone have a site they know of that can teach me how to make one? Please let me know!
- I got home last night and found out that my laptop is busted! It just won't freaking get to the Windows program and I'm so peeved. I was going to post a new pic and all that jazz, but spent several minutes trying to figure out why the hell it won't boot properly. Crap. I'm going to have to spend a few hours over the phone with tech support tonight. Boo.
- Last, but not the least, I got a new tattoo last Sunday. I'll post the pic later on. It's on my right arm (right near the elbow crease).
Song of the Day:
Purple Haze by Jimi Hendrix
On Good Vibrations and Upcoming Vacations
Bloc Party: I saw Bloc Party last Tuesday at Webster Hall. I don’t recall having ever been in Webster Hall before and was leery of watching a show there. Webster Hall is known as a cheesy club where the ration of men to women is like 10:1. Yet it has been a staple of the NYC club scene and still draws in tons of people. In any case, I was right to question the venue. Although the acoustics were great and the hall spacious, it was fucking hot! There was A/C in the bar area downstairs, but NOT upstairs where the band was playing. Imagine 600+ people in a crowded dance hall with very little AC coming out of the vents. It sure pissed me off. Everyone was nice enough to try not to touch each other, however, we all still sweated profusely. As I listened to Bloc Party, I felt sweat dripping from my forehead, neck, and even my legs! Gross. The only saving grace was Bloc Party itself (although for a while there, I was wishing that would just hurry the hell up, stop talking, and just play dammit!) Bloc Party was superb! Excellent sound with tons of energy! And for their "encore" --they played about 6/7 songs!
More Music News: So my band still hasn’t played any gigs. On top of that, we don’t even have a name yet. We haven’t practiced as a group in more than a month due to Jesica, (lead singer-guitarist) being sick. Our next studio practice won’t be until next week and then after that, I’ll be gone for a week. On the plus side, Jesica has finally decided against the name “Squares” for our band name. Finally! So we are on the hunt for the perfect band name. Here are some of my band name suggestions (and do pipe up if you have any suggestions or comments):
- Strangest Angels or Strange as Angels (from a Cure song)
- Spiraling Downward
- The Fates
- 4 Fates
- Venus Falling (only because Jesica wants “Venus” in there)
- Book of Mary
- Modern Tart
- Paperdoll or Paperdolls
- Seventeen Seconds
I’m really hoping to play live somewhere out there. Hopefully before I’m truly old and moldy. Whenever I see a band play live, I get so inspired (even if the band sucks). There’s nothing like live music to make you feel like a wanna-be rockstar.
Ciao Bellas! Guess what! I am going to Italy! Okay, so I’m not going until November but I have already booked our flights and am already super-excited! I’m going to Italy with the hubs and 2 other friends. We are going to Florence, Venice, and Rome! I have been bugging the hubs for a while now to go to Italy. At long last, he agreed to go; the trip would be in honor of his 31st birthday come November (although it would really be a present for me! Hee-hee). So I asked my friends if anyone would like to come with, and thus, a group of 4 was formed. The downside is that we won’t be there that long. We will only be there from November 19-27th (and the 19th and the 27th are traveling days) and can only spare about a few nights in each city. I had originally wanted to do only 2 cities so that we could spend ample time exploring, but was persuaded to add Venice. (I had wanted to do Venice and Milan on another occasion). I think the traveling from one city to another would be fun regardless. We’ll be taking the Italy Rail from city to city once we get there and fly home from Rome. I can’t wait!! The hubs has been to Italy, but I haven’t! I’m so excited!
Cruising Around: Speaking of holidays, I’m actually set to leave for my Caribbean cruise in about 2 weeks! I’ll be cruising to Belize, Mexico, and the Grand Cayman islands! I'm so happy to be able to go on three long holidays this year! I can't wait for the cruise either, but am slightly sad that the hubs can't come with. At least I'll be with my family so I know it'll be an interesting experience. If you haven't been on a cruise before, let me just say that you will gain about 5 pounds from all the eating. No joke. Cruising is all about the food. You will be completely stuffed by the time you are done. We're talking huge breakfast buffets, formal 3-course dinners, lunchtime BBQ's, and midnight desserts feasts. This is why I've been trying to lose 5 pounds (to no avail) before I go so that I can come out even when I get back!
Song of the Day:
Price of Gas by Bloc Party
The Hottest Wedding Ever!
This weekend, I went to the wedding of my good friends Rupal and Samir. Rupal and I met in law school and have been friends ever since. Rupal and Samir have been together since they were young --as in the 7th grade! They are very much like "Kevin Arnold and Winnie Cooper" of Wonder Years fame. They grew up in the town of Vestal, NY (a 2-minute drive from each other's houses), their families are close friends, they went to high school together, went to the prom together, went to college together, and then headed to NYC together (but independently) to pursue their careers. Now, they are finally going to live together as well! Roops (as we like to call her) is now a successful immigration attorney, and Samir is on his was to becoming a doctor (he's in the residency phase). They are such the golden couple and my heart just goes out to them! Their wedding ceremony was a traditional Gujarati ceremony and was held at the Decker Mansion in Binghamton, NY. The reception was held at the Holiday Inn Binghamton --in the very same ballroom in which they had their high school prom. How sweet is that?!
I can honestly say that this was the HOTTEST wedding ever because it was well over 80+ degrees that day, and the reception hall was having issues with their air conditioning. That did not deter 400 of us guests from dancing up a storm though!
Best wishes to them both! Here is their wedding in pictures:
The Barat: The groom, his family, and friends.
They do a celebratory dance as they walk towards the ceremony.
Where the Ceremony Took Place:
The ceremony is conducted in the holy Indian language of Sanskrit
Sonal, Rupal's Sister as she walks down the aisle...
Rupal, looking gorgeous as she walked down the aisle by a family member...
The hubs and I:
Bride and Groom at the Reception:
Father of the Bride:
Indian Stick Dance
(very fun! unfortunately, I don't know the traditional name for it!)
Roops and the Gals:
Song of the Day:
Filipino Independence Day Parade - NYC - June 5, 2005
This past Sunday, I went to the annual Filipino Independence Day Parade. I normally miss the parade part and go to the street fair part held at Madison Park. I haven't been to the parade in ages, but I thought I'd go this year with my friend Steve since he had not been to one here in NYC. I also met up with my friends Trish and Rol who brought out their newborn baby Alex. It was Alex's first Filipino Independence Day parade! The fair was packed and it was mighty hot (over 80 degrees)! We didn't stay very long and headed out to another street fair held about 4 avenues over. Some pictures...
Center Stage where live performances were held...
The Street Fair
Get your Filipino flag here!
Traditional Filipino attire...
Waiting to perform...
With Trish, Rol, and little Alex (who's hidden in the bjorn!)...
After the fair, we hung out at Steve's flat...
Steve playing with his Optimus Prime... He opened the box! Gasp!
Song of the Day:
Postcards from Miami
The hubs and I went to Miami to celebrate our anniversary with our friends. All in all, there were 6 of us. Here is our trip in pictures:
The Cast of Characters
L-R: Luke, Girlie, Me, the hubs, Babs and Karen (my friends who flew in from L.A.)
My parents' condo in Sunny Isles
View of the beach
Pool boys not doing their job....
With my friend Karen (who I've known since the 6th grade)
With the hubs, Babs, and Karen
Dining by the Marina:
we met up with Vinu and Vidya who arrived in Miami a few days before us.
Birds of a Feather - Bayside Marina
The hubs and I
Dining at P.F. Chang's
Girls About Town - Lincoln Road, South Beach
A Trip to the Everglades
View from the Airboat we took in the Everglades
Watching the Alligator Show
Isn't he cute? His name is Killer!
Karen with Snappy
Girlie with Snappy
We had a great holiday with tons of eating, catching up, and roasting under the Florida sun!
Song of the Day:
The Corner by Common